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Guys, women usually approach sex from a different perspective then we do. Let me briefly try to explain the difference.
For most guys sex is about the physical contact and action. For most men the approach is….I kissed her once, now let’s get the clothes off and get to the real action. “I don’t need no stinking foreplay, foreplay is for pussy’s and I’m a man” so lets start with the hardcore sex”.
And you know what, you pretty much have that exactly right….foreplay is for pussies. For the approximately 3,000,000,000 women on this planet it is absolutely essential for a great experience.
For women, the physical act of intercourse is like the last course in a seven course meal. But that last course really isn’t all that good if you didn’t have the first six to set it up.
For women, 85 – 90% of great sex is creating the mood, setting the atmosphere, getting mentally and physically ready to have a series of mind blowing orgasm’s; and the remaining 15% is the actual physical acts (intercourse, oral, toys, etc..).
If you only want to be with a woman once, get your rocks off, and then be talked about in a bad way to all her girlfriends….and build a reputation as a poor lover, stick with the guy’s way of thinking about sex.
If you want her cumming (pun intended) back for more, telling her girlfriends you are a stud in bed, and building up a reputation as being a great lover, you need to focus on the 85% and master the final 15%….especially the art of eating pussy.
Let’s face it — guys that get to the point with a woman where the physical acts of sex occur, always get their rocks off. It may not be a mind blowing experience that will make you want to come back for more, but you’ll cum one way or the other.
For women, they could potentially spend a couple of hours going through the physical motions of sex, and leave absolutely frustrated, sore, pissed-off; having never come even close to having a single, tiny little orgasm…let alone the body rocking one they were hoping for when they started.
And that usually happens because we screwed up the 85% and didn’t really do very well in the remaining 15% area either. The Pussy – what are we really talking about
I was quite intrigued to discover that most women have never really examined their pussies or know what they are made of. I’m sure most men are probably in the same department. Before I really start talking about eating pussy, I thought it might be a good idea to provide a little perspective so we’re all talking about the same thing.
I can tell you one thing for certain. Pussies are like roses, they are absolutely beautiful, and no two are exactly the same. Sure, they have the same parts, but every pussy looks a little different and everyone acts a little different and, fortunately, everyone feels a little different. Guys, that last sentence is absolutely critical to your success to making the woman you are with experienc mind altering orgasm’s. Every pussy responds to you differently. They may be subtle differences, or they could be major.
For example, one woman’s clit might really need to be taken to task in-order for her to have that mind blowing orgasm while the next ladies clit is so sensitive that simply blowing on it gently will be all she can take.
Because of this, you can’t let your mind wander when you are eating pussy, you have to pay attention to how your lady is acting, and reacting to what you are doing.
Now, let’s talk a little bit about a pussy so that we have a common frame of reference for the rest of our discussions.
First, no two are the same and about 70% of all women have never really looked at their pussies, or have really taken enough time to look at one to know if it is beautiful or not, they just assume it is gross.
Again, there are 3,000,000,000 women on the planet and I would venture to say that if we took all the women in their sexual prime, took pictures of their pussies and ran them through a pussy identification software program, we wouldn’t find any two that looked exactly the same…and I’m not sure any two would act the same under your touch.
I know all the pussies I’ve seen in the last 30 years were each unique in their own special way, and I’ve never seen any two look the same in pictures or movies. But they are all beautiful, and if clean, they all taste great!!! So, here are the key body parts that you need to know about in your journey to mastering eating pussy.
Mons — pubis: pussy hair (although some women these days are shaved).
Hood of the clitoris: just what it sounds like, a hood of flesh that covers the clit.
Clitoris: The clit — the absolute center of the universe when it comes to 99.9% of all mind altering orgasm’s.
Labia Majora: The outer (or large) pussy lips Labia Minora: The inner pussy lips
Vaginal Opening: what most men think of as the pussy: the channel to the inside
Perineum: vulgarly called ‘the taint’ cause it ‘taint pussy’, and it ‘taint ass’.
Anus: The butt hole.
With the exception of the pussy hair, every part mentioned is sensitive to the touch, and if touched properly, can leave your woman exhausted from multiple orgasms.
But, we are far ahead of ourselves. If you remember from the introduction, 85% of good sex for a woman is in the foreplay, and probably 70% of that has to happen before she’s willing to take her clothes off and give you an opportunity to play with her pussy.
For the sake of this story I’m going to assume that you and your special lady friend have made it past the roadblocks and she is seriously considering making love with you. Or you have made love before and she wants you to improve your ‘A’ game.
Guys, I think we all want basically the same thing here. On the continuum from fantastic lover to uncaring and clueless, we want to be on the fantastic lover end of the scale…and our women want us to be there also.
We want to be great lovers. Women want men who are great lovers. Whether it is with that one special lady; or having a reputation among the ladies that you know what you are doing when it comes to satisfying a woman’s sexual needs and desires, everyone wants to be on the fantastic end. But I have news for you, most of us aren’t.
Again, I’ll go back to what I said earlier. Men and women think about making love and sex differently. For men, it is sex, the end game, the actual physical act where dicks and pussies are being stroked and caressed that determines whether the woman is great in bed or not.
For women, it is making love, it is the journey, the foreplay, the anticipation, the excitement, the passion, the buildup, the seven course meal, and then the icing on the cake…everything leading up to the actual physical intercourse is as important, and in most cases more important than the actual physical act of intercourse.
The most important ingredients in deciding whether you are a great lover, an average lover, or totally clueless and uncaring lies in how well you do before the actual intercourse starts. Yes, you have to give her that mind blowing orgasm to ace the final exam and be considered a fantastic lover, but if it’s just wham, bam, thank you ma’am, you’ll be in the average to uncaring range on the continuum, and none of us wants to be there.
Please don’t get me wrong, there are times when a woman is super horny and wants to get right to it because something has already gotten her excited…and you have to be able to read this because in these cases she’s not looking for the romancing and foreplay but just wants the pure physical desires satisfied…but, from my experience, and from talking to a lot of women over the past few years, those occasions are far less frequent then guys like to hope for.
Think of your favorite sport and the professional athletes that are at the top of the game. They don’t just walk out on the court or the field and start playing full speed. They often spend hours warming up so that when it is game time, they are ready. If they don’t warm up properly, they have horrible games, are fatigued when everyone else is going at full speed, and often end up injured or in pain the entire game…although most women probably don’t look at it like this, they have to, and want to be warmed up before making love (for most women, warm-up means romance and foreplay).
If they aren’t warmed up, they usually do not enjoy the experience and you do not get invited back to play again; and eventually, you earn the reputation as a poor performer and no one invites you to play. Oh, and here is an absolutely critical point guys, almost all women think the warm up is part of the game, and you have to play if you want to have a full season!!!
Preparing to get intimate:
Making love to a woman, foreplay, eating pussy, sexual intercourse, and just fooling around are all very intimate times. You and your special lady friend are going too physically (and potentially mentally) be very close to each other for a long time. Be clean!!!
Shower before you pick her up, use soap and shampoo!! Even better, perhaps the two of you can shower together. She’s going to be looking, touching, kissing, caressing, licking, and inhaling the aroma of you for a few hours – this needs to be a positive and pleasant experience.
If she runs her fingers through your hair and it’s all nasty and greasy, that’s a mood changer. If she goes to gently (or not so gently) play with your nipples and gags on the smell of your armpit, that’s a mood changer.
If you take off your shoes or cloths and the room fills with a pungent odor, at the very best she’s going to ask you to go shower, at the worst, she’s going to ask you to leave.
Finally, if you are so lucky that she decides to go down and give you a little oral pleasuring and it tastes and smells like the salt mines or an outhouse in the south Texas heat….the day is over!!! Bottom line, be as clean as possible. Don’t let a foul, sweaty, smelly body kill the moment for her and you.
Shave if you aren’t sporting a beard. A little stubble might look sexy, but a hard bristly beard is hard on a woman’s soft skin. If you scratch her every time you get near her….especially when you get down between her legs….she’s not going to want your face near her….
If you wear cologne or aftershave, or anything smelly, go very light. First, you don’t want her nose to stuff up (because she can’t kiss, give you oral pleasures, and stay in the mood if she’s gasping for oxygen). Second, you don’t want it to be so overpowering that she’s focusing on the cologne and not you….if you use it, it should just be a hint that excites her senses, not a dousing that drowns her into submission.
Finally, don’t put it anywhere she might be running her tongue over your body. If she ends up licking along balls and comes away with the horrible taste of aftershave or cologne, she’s going to be trying to get that taste out of her mouth, and again, that means she’s concentrating on something other than pleasing you or that mind blowing orgasm you want her to have.
Brush your teeth and use a gentle mouth wash. Women like to kiss; they like to chat intimately during foreplay. If the smell of your breath is gagging, or they give you a French kiss and come away with a piece of whatever it is you’ve recently eaten….you can pretty much kiss the night goodbye, because you won’t be kissing her anymore.
And again….WOMAN LOVE TO KISS!!! It warms them up, gets the desires and juices flowing, excites them, and wins them over to the idea of going all the way with you. I would also recommend if you are going out for a few hours before the big event, that you carry along a box of Tic-tac’s or something along that line to help keep your breath fresh… I have had several women in my life (over the years, not all at once) tell me they absolutely love kissing me because my breath is always so fresh….
Believe me, if your breath smells like the ass end of a horse, the bottom of a shoe, or a butt can, it’s going to make it so much more difficult for a women to actually want to be with you. If your breath is fresh and clean, that can actually help turn them on and get them excited about being physically close to you.
Bottom line — be clean and have fresh breath….or as fresh as possible!!
Women, all the clues and tips above also apply to you!!! Generally you are all very clean and know how to get ready for an exciting evening. Before going out on a date or getting ready to have a romantic evening with your stud, I recommend a shower, and while you’re in there make sure you wash your butt with warm water and a little soap. This will guarantee you’ll be clean and there will be no smell or taste if your gentleman friend decides to go exploring down in that area.
Once you’ve washed, rinse well because when a guy runs his tongue along your body and comes away with the taste of soap, it distracts him from the moment.
Finally, you might be a little conscience, just prior to the big event, that your pussy is dirty, or salty, or smells. If your thinking those things and it’s distracting you, excuse yourself for a second to go to the bathroom, and while in there, wet some toilet paper and gently dab your pussy and it will be fine. I recommend you don’t rub because some of the toilet paper can stick to your pussy, and if a guy is running his tongue through there and comes away with a piece of toilet paper, that’s not a good thing….even though it is clean.
Finally ladies, a healthy pussy washed with water does not smell, does not taste funny, and is not dirty. If you are drug and disease free, your pussy probably has no taste or smell at all!!!! It is a wonderful place for a guy to bury his face and have a great time. And if you have washed your butt hole with a little soap and water before going out, or in to the bedroom, your ass does not smell or have any taste either!!
So you don’t have to be consciously worrying about that!! If you don’t believe me, after you’ve cleaned up, run your finger along your ass, gently between the lips of your pussy all the way up to your clit, and then bring it up to your nose for a sniff, or to your mouth and suck on it, and you won’t taste anything and you won’t smell anything either!!!
Bottom line for both of you…being clean is great…being salty, smelly, or having foul breath is bad. And a clean pussy and ass do not smell and they do not have any bad tastes!!!
Getting her motor humming and hot:
Okay, you are all prepared. You now have a basic understanding of how women and men think about making love, a little knowledge of the different parts of the pussy, a little perspective on why a woman needs to build up to the big moment, and a few tips on hygiene so that you don’t both go gagging from the room shortly after the clothes start coming off.
Wine her, dine her, and perhaps even take a couples massage together. Spend a few romantic hours together, focusing on her so that she feels special and appreciated. If you’ve been successful she will either invite you to her place, or agree to go with you someplace.
Now, let’s get her in the mood to want to make love. Before we go down to that pussy and really start pushing her over the edge to mind altering orgasms, we have to make her want it.
What we want is for her to be in a state of mind where she’s begging (maybe not out loud, but in her mind), praying, wishing with all her desires, that you would finish with the seduction and get down to business and start eating her pussy.
The first time you touch her pussy it should be soaking wet and eager for your touch. In order to get a pussy in that physical state, you have to pay attention to your ladies mind and the rest of her body first.
For a guy, just the thought of sex can get him rock hard in about 30 seconds. A woman’s body, mind, and pussy are not like that. Women need to take some time to get in the mood, anticipate the pleasure, and get emotionally and physically in to the encounter before they can really enjoy their time with you.
Think of foreplay like cooking steaks on a charcoal grill. First you have to prep the grill and the steak. You have to get the grill ready and you have to get the steak ready before you can start cooking. Only when the grill is at the right stage of preparation can you put the steak on and cook it properly.
If you put it on too early the temperature won’t be hot enough. You’ll have to take a long time cooking the steak and you really risk the chance of having a poorly done steak that’s not satisfying when you eat it. If you wait too late to put the steak on there isn’t enough heat left in the charcoal and you either have to restock it or you continue and end up with an unsatisfying steak because there wasn’t enough heat to cook it to perfection.
A woman’s body is like the grill, her pussy is the savior steak, and you are the chef. You have to prepare properly (romance and foreplay), put the steak on the grill at the right moment (start pleasuring her orally when she is at her peak of anticipation), and cook it to perfection (bring her to a mind altering orgasm, or two, or three, or more). If you want your steak done right you have to take the time to prepare.
If you want a woman to really enjoy her time with you, and tell all her friends that you are great in the sack, you have to take the time to prepare. AND HERE IS AN AMAZING TIP. I have found that even if I didn’t do a great job cooking that steak the first time, and it turned out to be less than a satisfying meal for the lady, if I did a great job preparing to cook it, she willing wanted me back to cook for her again.
Eventually women want a satisfying steak, but they enjoy the prep work (foreplay, to include oral pleasures) as much, if not more, than the actual cooking (intercourse).
Take a minute to picture a woman’s body. Think about her from her head to her toes, front to back. Once you are done with that, think about yourself as a detective. With the exception of the tops of their heads, almost every other part of a woman’s body could be a potential erogenous zone and it’s your job to figure out what makes her hot, and what doesn’t. Here are some of the areas that are sensitive for almost all women.
Lips — women love to kiss. Some women will enjoy kissing for 10, 15, 20 minutes or more before moving on. So, make sure your breath is fresh and your mouth is clean. Guys, if you don’t think you are a good kisser, play the mirror game. Basically, let her lead and you do what she does.
If she gives gentle kisses, you return gentle kisses. If she gently sucks your upper lip into her mouth, you suck her lower lip in to yours. When she lets go, you let go. TIP. Most women enjoy a little French kissing, but don’t ram your wet slobbery tongue all the way down her throat or swirl it around like you’re cleaning the inside of her mouth. Otherwise, relax and do what comes natural…or follow her lead if you aren’t sure. Kissing is generally best when it is soft and tender, gradually building to passionate and intense.
Ear lobes — women usually love to have them gently kissed, licked, and nibbled on. Gently blowing in to their ears turns them on, sticking a wet slobbery tongue in there generally turns them off. Also, before you get to the ears, while you are still kissing, softly run your fingers along the lobes of her ear and the back of her neck. This will help warm those areas up when you go to kiss, nibble, and lick them.
TIP. From this point on, talk to your lady once in a while as you are exploring her body. Tell her how wonderful her hair smells, how soft her skin is, how much you are enjoying yourself, how wonderful she tastes. Ladies, return the favor, if your guy is doing something that really turns you on, let him know.
Necks — women generally like you to kiss, nibble, and run your tongue along their necks, especially the back of the neck just below the hair line.
At this point, if she’s really into it, it’s probably time for the clothes to come off. You really can’t do anything else with her clothes on. Start undressing her, and if she begins to help, I recommend you start taking your clothes off while she takes hers off. I know it sounds romantic to undress each other, but most of us (men and women) aren’t good at it, it takes too long, and it stalls the mood and anticipation.
Women, if you are still conscious about whether you are clean enough to let your man lick your butt and eat your pussy, this is a perfect time for you to excuse yourself to quickly run to the bathroom (supposedly to pee) and quickly clean yourself one last time.
Guys, while she’s in there, this might be a good time to pop that last tick-tack in your mouth so your breath is nice and fresh.
On the other hand, if she’s comfortable with her cleanliness and doesn’t need to go to the bathroom, simply undress and move on with your investigation of her erogenous areas.
Breasts — most women love having their breasts stroked, licked, sucked, nibbled on, and kissed. A little talking here about how beautiful her breasts are really helps get her excited. Breasts come in all shapes and forms, there is always something positive and wonderful to talk about.
But be honest, if you say things she knows aren’t true, or knows you believe not to be true, it will kill the moment. For example, if you like big breasts, and she knows you like big breasts, but she’s an ‘A’ or ‘B’ cup, don’t tell her her breasts are the perfect size…she’ll know you are lying. However, they probably are soft, sensitive, and taste wonderful…tell her those things.
Time for something unique. I like rolling my lady over on her stomach and working on the back of her body. I’ve found in talking with ladies, to include the ones I’ve been with, that most men don’t do this and it adds a lot of excitement for them.
Lower back — the lower back and her sides from the ribcage near her breast all the way down to her hips are usually sensitive to softly wandering hands, tongues, and lips. Again, this is another area to gently run your hands over while you are kissing, or nibbling on her ears or neck.
This really is a double bonus for you because you are exciting two areas of her at once, and she will be more sensitive when you finally get to her lower back and sides with your mouth.
Ass — there are a lot of nerve endings in both butt cheeks and they can be very sensitive. Women usually enjoy their man running his fingers over her butt, squeezing, and maybe even a little light spanking.
They also enjoy you kissing, licking, and gently nibbling on their butt cheeks. Sometimes butt cheeks are sensitive to the slightest touch, and other times they need a little more force. When you get to this area, experiment and see what is turning her on….it could be different each time.
Here is another great opportunity to do a little talking. Tell her how beautiful her ass is, or how soft (or firm) it is, how wonderful it tastes and feels. Be honest with what comes at the moment, don’t lie. If you are with a women with a big soft butt, don’t tell her its firm, small, and beautiful (because that’s the kind of butt you like but don’t have) tell her it’s soft, and sensitive, and you love kissing and licking her cheeks.
The backs of the legs and backs of the knees — these areas are often very sensitive to lightly scraping your finger nails across them while you are kissing and playing with her butt, and then sensitive to kissing, running your tongue along them, and gentle sucking…especially the backs of the knees.
Feet — some women’s feet are extremely sensitive when they are sexually aroused. Many women love you to suck on their toes, or gently scrap your teeth across the top of each toe, the balls of their feet, or their heels. If they are really sensitive, they will be moaning and squirming as you nibble on their toes.
Remember, they are still laying on their stomach. As you nibble on their toes, they may start to push their butt up off the bed back towards their feet…almost like they are getting in to a doggy position. If she raises her butt up high enough, stop sucking on her toes and quickly lean forward and give her butt a little nibble or lick.
This will usually cause her to drop her butt back down to the bed. She won’t be expecting this the first time. Go back to nibbling on her toe, if she really liked what you did, her butt will be back up in the air in a few moments so you can lick it again.
This could go on for a little while, but eventually, if this really turns her on, her butt will stay up in the air, and if her legs are spread a little bit, this is a perfect time to gently lick her butt hole and her perineum.
If she drops back down to the bed, and then brings her butt back up as you continue to chew on her toes, she’s still trying to figure out if she likes it or not, so keep doing it. If she drops her butt back to the bed and doesn’t come back up, it’s not for her.
If one time she brings her butt back up, and keeps it up there as you are licking her anus and perineum, and kissing and nibbling on her but cheeks, she is ready and most likely wants you to eat her pussy in that position. At this point, stop with the feet and focus on the butt and pussy. More about this later.
If she dropped her but back down to the bed and doesn’t come up, gently pull on her legs and roll her over on to her back.
Now start working your way back up.
Most women’s calves, the fronts of their knees, and the fronts of their thighs are not very sensitive. But spread her legs apart and the inner thighs are very sensitive to gentle massage by hands, lips, and tongues.
Start near the knee on one leg, work all the way up to the pussy, but don’t touch it, go over the top, kissing and licking the flat of her belly and her pubic mound, then go back down her other thigh to her knee. Work your way back up to her pussy. Unless she’s dead, she should be ready for you to eat her pussy.
When you get to her pussy and ass, reassure her that you are happy to be there. Tell her how beautiful they look. Gals, you might think pussies are gross to look at, but to guys they are some of the sweetest looking things in the world. Honestly, they are. I’d rather look at pussies than roses or puppies any day.
As you start licking her pussy (I’ll talk about ways to do that in a little bit) tell her how soft her skin is, how wet she is….if she is wet…and how much that turns you on. Tell her how wonderful she smells and how sweet she tastes.
She needs to know you are really happy to be down there, and that you are hot to eat her out. This is also a good time to tell her that you want her to climax, you want her to have a mind blowing orgasm…as many as she can get, while you have your lips and tongue on her pussy. The reason you are doing this is to make her cum…so reassure her that is exactly what you want her to do.
Some women are self-conscious and think a man won’t like it if she cums while they are eating her out. For any ladies reading this blog, how many guys do you know that want you to give them a blow job and have you swallow. Right, nearly all of them. This is the same thing. We want you to cum, so don’t hold back!!!
Whether you are on top when he is eating your pussy, or you are laying on your back, when you are ready to cum, don’t hold back, let it loose….that is why we are down there in the first place. We want you to have intense, passionate, body aching orgasm while we are exploring your pussies with our mouths and tongues!!! And for all of you, a clean pussy has virtually no taste, even during and after an orgasm.
At this point, you’ve probably spent 10 – 30 minutes kissing, and another 15 – 20 minutes going from her earlobes to her toes and back up to her pussy. Here is a tip. If you are paying attention to your ladies reactions to your kissing and foreplay, and the things she’s telling you, she should be extremely hot and wet right now. She’s ready for you to go down on her, and you should be ready to eat that sweet little rose till it explodes.
Okay guys, it is the moment of truth. You are staring at your lover’s pussy and it is now time to take her to the heights of ecstasy with your lips, tongue, and fingers. As you are gently kissing the inner parts of her thighs, closest to her pussy, tell her how beautiful she is. Tell her how lovely her pussy looks. Tell her how excited you are about being so close to her and how much you are going to enjoy kissing and making love to her pussy with your mouth.
Tell her how sweet she smells and how erotic and exciting that is to you. Tell her to relax and get lost in the moment. Tell her to let her body take over and enjoy this moment to its fullest. These things will reassure her that you really want to eat her pussy, and that she is clean and beautiful and you want her to cum when she’s ready.
There are five very sensitive areas here, six if you count the anus. If you remember from the earlier picture you have the clitoris and the clitoral hood at the top, the inner lips, the outer lips, the vaginal opening, and the perineum.
The clit is by far the most sensitive right now, so don’t go directly for it as you begin eating her pussy. You’ve spent the past 20 — 40 minutes getting her body and pussy ready for this moment, now you need to spend a few minutes getting her clit ready.
For the purposes of this story, let’s assume your lady is lying on her back, stretched out on the bed and totally comfortable. If she has her knees up in the air, and her feet planted on the bed on either side of your shoulders, you might want to consider gently reaching under her butt cheeks, lifting her off the bed a little and pushing slightly towards her body so that her anus comes in to view.
Gently blow on it, and give it several soft and sensual licks. Believe me, if she enjoys this she will let you know, and if she doesn’t she’ll push down with her hips so that her butt is back on the bed and you can’t get to her anus. If she washed with water and a mild soap, there will be no smell and not taste….for you it will be very much like sucking on one of her nipples.
For her, there will be a direct line of nerves running straight from her butt hole to her brain and her clit….both increasing her pleasure and anticipation. If she is enjoying it, stay there for a minute or two gently licking her anus, her perineum, and nibbling on her butt cheeks. If she’s pushed her butt back down on the bed and won’t come back up don’t try to force her back up, move on to other areas.
Next move on to her outer pussy lips and the area between her thighs and inner pussy lips. Either flatten your tongue, or make it stiff like a point and apply a little bit of pressure. Don’t touch her pussy or her clitoris yet. Lick this area and her outer pussy lips from perineum up to where you are almost touching her clitoris.
When you get to the top, move over her clit without touching it and blow on it gently. Move your head back down and repeat this long lick on the other side of her leg. Her reactions should tell you whether she likes this or not…if it’s making her hotter, stay at it for a minute or two, staying away from the inner lips and clit, but gently blowing on them after each lick. Tell her how much you are enjoying this and you can’t wait to open her pussy and enjoy her wonderful juices.
Now it is time to go in. Before you start, reach one of your arms around her leg, put a couple of fingers on her pubic mound a ½ inch or so from her clit and gently pull backwards exposing her clit to the fresh air.
If she’s really hot, and her clit is big enough, it may already be outside the hood, but this action and the slight pressure will help increase her excitement even more. Remember, the clit is probably still super sensitive so you have to explore gently.
Start down at the perineum again, make sure your tongue is nice and moist, flatten it against her perineum and then gently and slowly take a long lick from her perineum all the way up and over her clitoris. This should take you about 4 or 5 seconds to get from the bottom of her pussy to the top….nice and slow.
When you go over her clit, watch her reaction, if she jumps, it’s still very sensitive and your next several licks should be very gentle when you pass over her clit – till she can take the stimulation. When her clit is this sensitive, it can actually cause pain, not pleasure, so watch closely.
Go back down and start again, this time, as you pass from perineum to vaginal opening, push your tongue inside her a little and taste her moisture and see how hot and wet she is. This should be a really exciting time for you, and as you enter her (only slightly) with your tongue, let out a low moan like you’ve just bitten into the sweetest dessert in the world.
This will really help her confidence soar and get her even hotter. Once you’ve gone over top of the clit, before you start going back down for your next lick, tell her how wonderful she is and how delicious her pussy tastes, and how hot it is making you.
All in all, take 8 — 10 of these long slow licks and really enjoy the reaction and taste. After 8 – 10 long slow licks her clit should be accustomed to the stimulation and ready for more. Again, as you are doing this, moan a little like you would when taking the first bites of a great steak.
Next, softly spread her inner pussy lips apart, or ask her to do it, and then gently push your tongue in and out of her. About 85% of all the nerve endings in a woman’s pussy are in the first one or two inches of entering the vaginal opening, so you don’t have to push in too far.
As long as she’s enjoying this, keep tongue fucking her. Women can and do climax while being tongue fucked. If you are lucky, this will happen, if not, after a few minutes it is time to focus your attention on her clitoris.
Just before you move on to the clit, slide two fingers (index and middle are the easiest) into her pussy. Don’t stick your fingers in there dry though, anything dry can cause pain, not pleasure.
Either stick them in your mouth and get them nice and wet, or put them up to your ladies mouth and let her suck on them and get them nice and wet. Once they are wet, slowly push them in to her pussy as far as you can comfortably go.
I prefer going in with my hand facing down, and then twisting as I’m entering so that by the time my fingers are all the way in my palm is facing up. Slowly pull your fingers all the way back out. If she is watching you, stick one in your mouth and suck her pussy juices off your finger….don’t worry there is no taste, just moisture on your finger.
Tell her how delicious it is, and offer her the other finger to suck on if she wants. Some women will really be turned on by this and go for it, others won’t want to do it….go with the flow.
Ladies, if you’ve never tasted your pussy juices before, this might be an excellent time….you’ll see, there is no taste; it’s just warm and wet. If she doesn’t want to taste herself, bring your hand back, stick both fingers in your mouth to get them nice and moist again and push them slowly back in to her pussy.
When you are all the way in, your palm should be face up. Feel around for a spot on the top of her inner pussy, about a finger length in, that feels a little rougher than the rest of her pussy (almost like a washboard). If there is a G-spot, this is where it will be located. Stimulating this area on the inside while sucking on her pussy and clit on the outside should double her pleasure.
With your other arm reach around her leg again, put your hand in her pussy hair (or where it would be if she’s shaven) and pull her clitoral hood back and expose her clitoris.
If you can picture this in your mind, you are now very close to her clit with your mouth, you have two fingers deep in her pussy, and you have a thumb and two other fingers with nothing to do. Open that part of your hand up and cradle your chin in-between your thumb on one side and your pinky and ring finger on the other side.
This has two distinct advantages. One, it will help you hold up your head and rest your neck so that you can eat her pussy longer. Second, the back side of your hand is touching her inner thighs, not your scraggly bearded face.
The entire area around the pussy is sensitive to the touch, and if you haven’t shaved in a couple hours there is a little bit of stubble on your face that will probably feel like rough coarse sand paper on the inside of her thighs…by holding your chin like this, you don’t have to worry about scratching her with your stubble, and she can concentrate on getting off.
So you have your chin cradled between your thumb and fingers, protecting her thighs and giving you some support to hold up your neck. You have two fingers buried deep in her pussy, hopefully touching her G-spot. And, you have your other hand gently pressing on her Mons Pubis and pulling her hood back exposing her clit. Now it’s time to begin the real fun. Serious Business – bringing on the orgasm:
Now it’s time to get down to serious business and bring your lady to that gut wrenching orgasm she’s hoping for. If you still have your arm wrapped around her leg, place your fingers around the clitoral hood and pull it out of the way so that you can make direct contact with her clit. Expose that little puppy to the fresh air.
Keep your arm wrapped around her leg as you start licking and sucking on her clit and be prepared to put her leg into a gentle vice grip if needed. Once you really start licking her clit, some women start squirming around.
They love the sensation, but want to escape from it at the same time because it can be so intense. If you aren’t hanging on for dear life she very well could pull away from you…and you definitely don’t want that to happen at the wrong time….like just before she is going to cum.
When you first start licking her clit, vary the pressure, vary the direction, vary the intensity of what you are doing and watch her reactions. Focus more on the things that make her squirm and moan, and less on motions that don’t elicit a visible or audible response.
Ladies, give your guy a response when something feels good so he knows what’s working and what’s not. Think of it as being a teacher, you want him to learn what really turns you on, you don’t want him guessing and getting it wrong.
Also, don’t fake it, unless you’ve already made up your mind you aren’t going to see him again and you just want to get it over with. Guys remember! If you fake it, they’ll think they did a great job. The next time if it seems like you aren’t enjoying yourself they’ll go back to what they think works, and you’ve created a viscous cycle where the guy thinks he’s doing everything you like and you are continuously faking it and getting more and more frustrated.
Guys, there are all kinds of options here so let your mind wander on what you are doing, but stay focused on her reactions. She doesn’t want you all over the map so there must be some consistency, but she wants a bit of variety at the same time so it doesn’t get boring.
You have two goals here. First you want to stimulate her mind so that she gets more and more excited. Second, you want to really start heating her up and get the motor running.
Here are some examples of things you can try. Vertical licks; licking from the bottom of her clit to the top. Horizontal licks; licking from side to side across her clit. Lick in a circular motion around her clit. Some girls like you to go clockwise, others like you to go counter-clockwise – try both and see what works.
Note: This story was originally written as a personal message to my EP friend Ravensplight. I have decided to share it with you all. Enjoy!
My fingers trace your swollen, dripping lips, avoiding your clit… “Don’t tease me,” you moan. But I continue, slowly bringing my mouth closer and closer. I can smell your arousal. My tongue traces your lips the way my fingers had, then dips deep into its folds to taste your nectar. You moan, grab my hair, and pull my face to your pussy… my tongue to your clit…
As my tongue comes in contact with your clit, your body shakes. But after only a couple flicks, I begin working my way up and down your slit, delving deep inside, then circling your clit, then back down again. At random times, I go right up over your clit, and am rewarded by a squeal or a moan. I cannot believe how juicy you are. I use a finger to collect your juices, plunging deeply into you, and then dancing around your lips again. This elicits another moan. I can feel your juices running down the crack of your behind. As my fingers follow your juices lower, I feel you tense.
“Not there,” you moan.
I can take a hint, and redouble my efforts, sliding two fingers now into your tight pussy as I pay more attention to your clit. You relax, and your legs begin to squeeze my head. Your pelvis begins to arch, as I now concentrate on your clit — My fingers pounding hard inside you. I hear what sounds almost like a growl begin to form deep inside you, growing louder. I feel your back arch, and my head is being squeezed so hard I think it will explode, but I do not stop licking and fingering. Then the growl turns into a cry of ecstasy. Long and loud, your voice bears witness to the pleasure coursing through your entire body. Your toes are curled and your hands form fists as wave after wave of pleasure wash over you. I do not even slow, and as you begin to regain small bits of control, the stimulation is overwhelming. But as you begin to push me away, you are overcome once again with a second orgasm almost as powerful as the first. All sound stops as you find that you can no longer catch your breath. Your body trembles and shakes.
Your legs release my head, and after one more, long lick, I lift my head and gaze into your beautiful face. It looks like you are lost in some other world; your breathing is ragged, and your eyes are glazed. I watch you slowly come back to reality… Watch your smile as your eyes regain their focus and catch mine. Then an almost panicked expression washes over you as I slowly extract my fingers. The feeling so soon after two intense orgasms is almost too much to bear. But once they are out, I am at your side and we kiss… sharing the taste of your pussy which is all over my face.
We embrace and enjoy the kiss until you pull away. With a devilish gleam in your eye and determination in your voice, you say “My turn now!”
Pushing me onto my back, your hands on my chest curl into claws and you rake your nails along my sides. Your long hair tickles my body as your lips kiss their way down my chest, my stomach. The contrast between the feeling of your nails, lips, and hair drives me wild. You then kiss your way in a circle around my throbbing cock, teasing it with your hair. I can barely stand it and gram handfuls of the sheets as my back arches involuntarily. You look up at me and grin, then your tongue dances down to catch the drop of precum which has formed at my tip. Your eyes are fixed on mine as your lips form an “O” and descend around my now purple head.
The pleasure is exquisite as you work your way down… down… until I am lodged deeply in your throat. Then, your nails find my balls as you work your way back up again, twisting your head back and forth as you do.
“ARGH!!” I groan, as you giggle. Sitting upright, your breasts are mesmerizing. You lean down a bit now, and tease me with them, dangling first one swollen nipple, then the other just out of reach of my tongue. But this was to distract me as you have now straddled my body and are lowering your hot, dripping pussy towards my pulsing tool.
I can feel your heat radiating as you stop, poised mere millimeters above me, grinning evilly. Then you plunge down hard, taking all of me inside you in one motion. We both groan in unison as we are joined together by our most sensitive parts. My hands find your hips as you begin to rock, ever so gently. You can feel my heart rate quicken by the pulsing within you. You rock, still slowly, allowing more of me to escape before being taken back in. The fullness you have longed for all day is now a reality. Our mingled juices make our slippery conjunction that much more pleasurable. My hands have found your breasts, caressing and kneading them. Rolling first one nipple,, then the other, between thumb and forefinger elicits a shriek of delight from your sensuous lips.
Now you are riding with more urgency. No longer rocking, but bouncing up and down hard. The slap of our bodies together is incredible erotic. I thrust up to meet your movements, but you need more.
“Fuck me!” you shout, and I am happy to oblige. I draw you to me, our mouths together, and tongues dancing for a moment as I roll you onto your back. Now, as I look down into your lust filled eyes, I work to meet your need. I begin to pound you in earnest. Your ankles lock behind me as you try to draw me even deeper. My hands on the bed support my upper body as I watch your face contort in pleasure. I shift my angle a bit and am rewarded as you squeak in delight. Now your eyes are closed, and it is your turn to grab the sheets as you hold on tight. The relentless pounding inside you is carrying you to the edge. The noises you are making merge into an almost continuous scream, encouraging me to continue.
A flood of additional juices enhance our union as sensations explode throughout your body. I can feel you spasm around my cock, as it continues to thrust deeply into you. Your whole body begins to shake, and the animalistic sound you release is pure elation. You ride the wave of orgasmic delight, spurred on my ceaseless stimulation within you. Your entire being is defined by pleasure.
And as the shaking begins to ebb, I slow my thrusting only long enough to hook my arms under your legs and draw them up to my shoulders. Immediately, the assault on your overstimulated cunt is resumed, this time even more deeply. Your waning orgasm is overwhelmed by an even more powerful one, starting deep in your soul and enveloping everything in its path. Your vision blurs, and then begins to fade as the power of pleasure overcomes you.
For an undetermined time, you are carried, floating in bliss. You don’t want it to stop. So good… But the intensity begins to fade. You regain some sense of the world around you. The cool dampness of the sheets beneath you… The closeness of someone beside you… The feeling of fingers brushing your hair from your face…
You open your eyes and turn to see me, once again beside you.
“Mmmm…” is all that you can say.
“Mmmmm…” I echo.
We embrace and hold each other for several minutes until you notice something persistent pressing between us. Your eyes are wide as realization dawns on you.
“You haven’t cum yet!” you stammer in excited awe…